Hi Everyone,
Well, Lord willing, we will be together again this Sunday. It feels great to be out of the great freeze … at least for now. We still have February on the horizon. Oh well, one winter storm at a time, huh? Here is this week’s bulletin.
Pastor Dave
Question: “Should a Christian attend a gay wedding?”
Further, no one sin is greater than another. All sin is offensive to God. Homosexuality is just one of many sins listed in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 that will keep a person from the kingdom of God. We all sin and fall short of God’s glory (Romans 3:23). It is only through Jesus Christ that we may be saved from sin’s eternal consequences. (Please see What does it mean that Jesus saves?)
Some would contend that a Christian should have no qualms about attending a gay wedding and that one’s presence at a gay wedding does not necessarily indicate support for the homosexual lifestyle. Rather, they view it as extending Christ’s love toward a friend. The thought is that one’s presence at a wedding ceremony is an act of love and friendship toward the person—not toward the lifestyle or spiritual choices. We do not hesitate to support friends and loved ones who struggle with other sins. Showing support and unconditional love could open doors of opportunity in the future.
The problem is that a gay wedding is a celebration of two people who are living a lifestyle that God declares to be immoral and unnatural (Romans 1:26-27). “Marriage should be honored by all” (Hebrews 13:4), but a gay wedding dishonors marriage by perverting its meaning. Unlike weddings of those in other faiths, a gay wedding does not qualify as a marriage, according to what God declares marriage to be. A marriage between a non-Christian man and non-Christian woman is still a marriage in God’s eyes. It is still a fulfillment of the “one flesh” relationship that God intends (Genesis 2:24). Even a marriage between a believer and an unbeliever is a valid marriage (1 Corinthians 7:14), even though God commands believers to avoid such marriages (2 Corinthians 6:14).
A gay union is not a marriage in God’s eyes. God ordained marriage to be between a man and a woman for a lifetime; to take that holy and blessed union and link it to something God declares to be unholy is unconscionable. How can we ask God’s blessing on a union that He declares to be unnatural?
Suppose a Christian could attend a gay wedding and somehow communicate clearly that he is supporting only the individuals getting married and not their lifestyle. The individuals he is supporting are still holding an event which celebrates their immorality. There is no way around the fact that a gay wedding ceremony is a celebration of sin. We support an alcoholic friend by helping him refrain from drinking, not by going to a bar with him. We support a friend addicted to pornography by making him accountable and getting him help, not enabling him to hide his addiction. In the same way, we support a homosexual friend by helping her out of the lifestyle, not by signing a guest book at a celebration of homosexuality. We do not truly help our friends by attending an event where their sin is applauded.
It is admirable to show love to a friend. It is good to seek opportunities to witness to and show kindness and love to our gay friends. However, such motivations are misguided when it comes to attending a gay wedding. It is never our goal to drive our friends away from Christ, but Christians have a responsibility to stand up for righteousness, even if it results in pain, division, or hatred (Luke 12:51-53; John 15:18). If invited to a gay wedding, it is our conviction that a believer in Jesus Christ should respectfully decline and find other ways to express love, respect, and care.
Hi Everyone,
We had hoped to at least have church this weekend but if you have been out at all you realize that it is dangerously cold and is forecast to be even colder tomorrow. It will be warmer Sunday but not much warmer until Sunday evening and that doesn’t really help us. Next weeks temps look much improved so Lord willing we will have morning worship at our normal time followed by our annual business meeting next weekend – January 28, 2024. Please pray that this will happen. Thanks.
Please take care and stay safe and warm. If you need anything and can’t get out, give me a call and I’ll send Kerry. No, only joking about the send Kerry part. If you need anything, let us know.
Pastor Dave
Hi Everyone,
As most of you, if not all, have expected we will not have services tomorrow at Faith Fellowship and have postponed our annual business meeting until next Sunday, January 21, 2024, weather permitting. Did you get that part … weather permitting 🙂 … We hope to get the meeting in next week but if not we will try again the following Sunday – January 28, 2024. So stay safe and warm and look forward to spring, right?
Pastor Dave
Hi Everyone,
Today is a beautiful, warmer day with the sunshine but with more snow expected and the frigid temperatures that are predicted for the weekend we will probably not have church or our annual business meeting this Sunday – January 14, 2024. I will talk to the guys again and let you know for sure probably tomorrow. So that means our annual business meeting will be postponed until January 21. The extended forecast looks better for that weekend. Thanks for understanding and praying.
Pastor Dave
Hello All,
Wow. The first Sunday in 2024. What will this year bring? Here is this week’s bulletin.
Pastor Dave
